
Even through the supposed anonymity of the internet, the greatest of friendships can be formed. Bonds so powerful that you never want to let them go, and may change your life forever, for the better. Despite the distance, despite the inability to touch and feel, you can grow as close as family to these supposed anonymous people. These individuals are more than just "internet people." They're people. In the World of Warcraft, a video game, I have found people that have truly changed me. I would not be the person I am today without them.
I've been playing WoW since launch day, and the community I've been a part of in the game has been a constant for all of these years. People have come and people have gone, but for the most part, I've played the World of Warcraft with the same names, the same faces, the same people. I'm 21 now, and I started gaming with this crew when I was 17. I can safely say I've essentially grown up with these people. We reminisce on the old days, and we realize that we've all changed quite a bit since the beginning. We've matured together, we've grown up together. People who have never had this experience, as I said before, don't understand how you can form such bonds over the internet. Some of the greatest friendships I've ever had, and ever will have, have been on the internet. Some people you will never forget, no matter where you met them. This is something I've had to think about quite a bit the last few days.Earlier this week, a member of our community passed away at the age of 27. Gregil, the lovable mage, had been with us for years. Many of us were close to him, and he was right there in everything we did. From Blackrock Depths to Molten Core to the Black Temple. He has been with us for every boss kill, and every other accomplishment of ours. Even if he was tired, or in a bad mood, or even sick, he was always willing to lend a hand. From raids to 5-mans to gearing up alts to newbies to the game, he would devote hours of his free time just to helping people. He never turned anyone away, whether that help was needed in WoW or for something else entirely. Gregil never hesitated to set aside an entire day(or three) to help members of our community troubleshoot their PC, or work the kinks out of some coding.
Gregil and I would often have long conversations about WoW lore. He adored dragons, and I vividly remember the night he came home from Blizzcon gushing about the Wrath of the Lich King news from that panel. He was more excited than I'd ever seen him, telling me every little detail. From Malygos to the mention of the proto-dragons, he left nothing out. Since then, one of the things he's wanted most out of the game was Wrath of the Lich King to be released, just so he could devour every bit of dragon lore he could find.
Gregil was infamous for his ability to fall off of just about anything in the game. The bridge in UBRS was the bane of his existence. His lack of navigational skills rivaled even my own, the two of us were always getting lost in some empty corner of a dungeon. He had a habit of falling asleep at the worst possible times(Gregil, your hat dropped! Come loot it! ...Gregil? Greg??), a habit we teased him endlessly about. Gregil loved putting on this show of being a cranky old man, but we all knew that there wasn't a friendlier person in the world.
He may have been someone that we just 'knew in a game,' but every one of us was touched by him in some way. WoW is just a game, but the people are not. The people are so much more than just random folk on the internet. The gathering of 40+ people on an island above Nagrand to honor his memory just moments after we heard the news proves this to me, and I will never forget it. I will never forget Gregil, and I hope he knows how much he meant to all of us.
Greg, we'll miss you. I'll be sure to do every single dragon related quest there is in Wrath for you. And next week, when Illidan goes down? That kill is for you, bud.
Rest well, my friend. There'll never be another man like you.


















Reader Comments (Page 1 of 3)
3-01-2008 @ 3:10PM
Helm said...
He will be missed. I remember when he made my cindercloth cloak for my Onyxia Scale Cloak. That was an exciting time for me back in the day.
I didn't know him as well as others did, but I knew of his existence and of his deeds. He is going to be missed greatly on our server. :(
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:12PM
thur said...
Respect for the article, may your friend find peace.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:16PM
Powertrip said...
"WoW is just a game, but the people are not."
Wonderfully said.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:20PM
synack said...
This was really touching and reminds me of all the great things I have come to love about the WoW community.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:22PM
Seamus said...
{bows head}
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:24PM
Morien said...
word.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:25PM
Anon said...
Wow, that's sad! I mean, he only lived 27 years, and he spent the last few years playing WoW? Holy shit, he was a sad person. Anyway, what happens to his account? Can I have his stuff?
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:32PM
Louie Hill said...
Dude, shut it, so what if he was playing wow, it doesnt make any difference, the author was obviously good friends with him, so pay a little respect, it goes a long way. Grow up.
On a less angrier note, that was indeed a touching article, and I am sorry for your loss, you raise a very good point indeed here.
3-01-2008 @ 3:49PM
fLUx said...
Jesus, I won't comment on any of your message because you will never be a decent person who knows that your comment was disgusting, and everybody knows anyway.
Anyhow, I agree, I know a few people in WoW who I know from a forum, and I know that, even if this sounds a bit sad, something would be missing from my life if they disappeared. I spend so much time with them now we all play WoW together, things wouldn't be the same if they didn't exist.
You can find out so much about people in a few months which I think would take years in real life. RL friends can't be beaten, but online friends are treasured no less.
3-01-2008 @ 11:40PM
Matdredalia said...
You need your WoW account taken off of you and then put in a corner like a child so you can think about what you've done.
Shame, shame on you. People like you are, sadly, the reverse side of this game.
I am so very glad that there are more people out there who are like the late Gregil than like you.
He was 27 and spent the last few years of his life on WoW....how do you know his passing wasn't unexpected or that if it wasn't, WoW wasn't the thing that helped him hold on as long as he did?
I've known people who spent their final time on MMOs before, and guess what? Usually the friends and support they recieve while still being able to rest, are the reason they can hold on as long as they can.
You sir, need to learn to grow up, play nice in the sandbox, and get some bloody compassion.
3-02-2008 @ 11:59AM
Arturis said...
A textbook example of trolling, Anon. Begone. Back to the Official Forums with you.
3-01-2008 @ 3:28PM
rick gregory said...
My sympathies Alex. Greg sounds like a great person and 27 is way too young.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:29PM
Anonimoose said...
Any good loot?
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:29PM
Ebaumsworld said...
Did he drop any good loot?
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:30PM
Tekkub said...
"it's difficult to grasp the idea of bonds and friendships formed over the web"
Met my husband on IRC. Been together going on 7 years now. People don't understand how we could form a relationship with 1200 miles between us. First time I met him in person was when he moved in with me.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:31PM
SHADOW RENEGADE said...
Anon that is a sick thing to say,on a brighter note,This is one of the reasons that when people say omg you play wow noob,You know you belong to a great community.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:33PM
Anon said...
Wow a troll priest?
I take it he died behind the computer after gimping himself
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:34PM
kunukia said...
Nice article. And very sad. OM AMI DEWA HRIH
It is true. I have some friends in WoW who are just as important to me as folks I know in real life. Some I expect to keep in touch with when we no longer play WoW.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:51PM
anonymoose said...
A very worthy tribute to what must have been a good WoW friend. Nicley done and my condolences.
Reply
3-01-2008 @ 3:53PM
crispy said...
What a bunch of horrible comments. Anyway, touching story and my condolences to you the people who loved your friend.
Reply